Your couples coach

Feel heard. Feel closer.

Mon Ami is the couples app that helps you talk things through, really listen and grow closer, with daily questions, games and date ideas.

Download on the App Store

Start on your own. Invite your partner when you're ready.

A couple on a cosy couch, each with their own phone, smiling at each other

Ami

Let's talk it through. I'll make sure you both feel heard.

Date ideas

It's a match πŸ’ž

Picnic at sunset

For the hard days

Talk it through, together.

Ami guides you both, one step at a time, and makes sure each of you feels heard before you decide anything.

  1. 1Check in
  2. 2Hear each other
  3. 3Underneath
  4. 4Agree

The housework

Alex and Sam, with Ami

Our agreement 🀝Day 1 of 14

A fair week at home

  • Alex cooks Monday to Wednesday; Sam does Thursday to Saturday.
  • Sam takes the laundry, start to finish.
  • πŸ‘₯Ten minutes tidying together after dinner, music on.
πŸ“… Check in Fri 6 Novβœ“ You both agreed
The proof

Every talk ends in a plan.

Not just a chat. You finish with something you've both agreed to try, and a day when Ami checks in on how it's going.

For the fun days

Little things that keep you close.

Five minutes a day, together. Most days, this is what Mon Ami is for.

Today's question

Answer a question a day

One question, two answers. You see your partner's once you've both answered, so there's always a little surprise.

Today's question

What's your favourite thing about me?

βœ“ You've both answered

Alex

The way you sing in the car like nobody's listening 🎀

Sam

Your laugh, especially when it turns into a full-on cackle πŸ˜‚

Ami

Two lovely answers πŸ’œ Have you ever told each other that?

Date ideas

Plan dates you'll both love

Say yes or no to date ideas. When you both say yes, it's a match. Or tell Ami where you spend your weekends and see what's on near you.

Questions & games

Play, laugh, find out more

Who's more likely to…? This or that. Ten question packs, from Just for fun to Dreams and the future.

Who's more likely to…

be running late?

Alex
Sam

You both said Sam πŸ˜…

Private by design

Two spaces. One just for you.

Only you

Me

Just you and Ami. Vent, untangle a feeling, check in on how you feel about you two, or pick something to grow this week.

Talk to AmiWeekly check-inGrow this week
You both

Us

Everything you share: today's question, games, date matches, your talks and the plans you agree on.

Today's questionGamesDate ideasTalks
  • Your partner never sees your private chats or check-ins.
  • Talk messages fade after 30 days. The summary and your agreement stay.
  • You choose what Ami remembers, and you can delete it any time.
  • No ads, and we never sell your data.
Articles

Little reads for two.

Short, friendly guides to talking, home life, money and family, built on five of the best books about relationships.

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Questions

Can I use it on my own?+

Yes. Talk things through privately with Ami, check in on how you feel about your relationship, grow as yourself with a goal for the week, and get ready for a hard conversation. Soon you'll also be able to learn your attachment style and how you feel loved. Invite your partner whenever you're ready.

Is this therapy?+

No. Ami is an AI coach that helps you talk and plan together. It isn't a therapist or a crisis service. If you're in danger, call your local emergency number, and see our Support page for crisis helplines.

Does my partner have to pay?+

No. Pairing is free, and the partner you invite never pays to join your talks.

Who can read our messages?+

Your chats with Ami and your check-ins are only ever yours. In a talk, you both see the shared conversation. Talk messages fade after 30 days; the summary and your agreement stay.

We're fine. Is it still for us?+

Yes! Most couples use Mon Ami for the fun bits: a question a day, little games and date ideas. Ami is there for the days you need a hand.

How does pairing work?+

One of you shares a six-letter code or a link. The other types it in, and you're paired.

What if we break up?+

Either of you can unpair at any time. What you shared is hidden from the person who leaves, everything in Me stays yours, and you can both pair with someone new.

Is it on Android?+

Not yet. Mon Ami is iPhone only for now.

Better with two.

Download Mon Ami, then send your partner a code or a link. You'll be paired in a minute.

Download on the App Store
Pair with your partner: your six-letter code, Share your invite, or type in your partner's code